I was relational before relational was cool… Way back in the day, I invited kids in my youth group to run errands with me, signed on to be a substitute teacher to earn street cred with kids at school, and invited the families of my teenagers over for dinner.…
What if my little youth ministry ship was permanently stuck in a swirling vortex? Here are three “diagnostic” questions that I vowed to use as filters. Even though I had a decade of ministry under my belt, I was exhausted after months of trying to build a new youth ministry from the ground up.…
The youth ministry equivalent of “Which came first, the chicken or the egg?” is “Which comes first, basic Christian disciplines or a personal connection to Jesus?” We treat the “basics” of the Christian life like they’re building blocks—prayer, Bible reading, Scripture memorization, service, and worship—but what happens when we emphasize those basics outside the context of a close, personal relationship?…
We were at a red light when my life changed forever. I was on my way to Walmart with my youth pastor—he’d invited me to tag along on a shopping trip for an upcoming lock-in. We needed to buy chips and Hula-Hoops.…
It’s quarter to midnight. I have to be at church at 5:30 a.m. to make sure last-minute logistics are covered and someone is available to meet the bus drivers when they arrive. Fortunately, this ain’t my first rodeo… A carefully (and perpetually) packed toiletries bag stands watch in my bathroom, with duplicates of everything I use in my daily routine.…
As I sat on the couch, another infomercial reminded me that I’m too fat, too lazy, and too apathetic. This time, I decided, it was time to make a change—I was finally ready to take the plunge. So I tentatively started my journey to wellness.…
We live in a culture that’s working up a good sweat, always pushing us to excel. Goal-setting. Achieve more. Grow. And all of this is, of course, the American way… But what if where you are, right now, is where you need to be?…
During the Christmas season, most youth ministers try to find new ways to teach old truths. With the same old “angels sang, shepherds wondered, Mary did you know?” routine, it’s easy to lose sight of the wonder of Jesus’ birth. On the first Christmas, [tweet_dis]God came to earth and conveyed his message in some pretty incredible ways.[/tweet_dis]…
Knighthood. Kingdoms. Castles, kings, and queens. They’re all very noble—very The Crown. After binge-watching that show on Netflix, I spent some serious time on Google to discover what it actually means to be knighted by a royal. Because if the Kingdom of God is, well, a kingdom, then surely some parallels must exist.…
We’ve all bumped up against the supernatural at least a time or two in ministry. If nothing else, a clear example is that moment when our citizenship is transferred from temporal to eternal. The truth is, everything we do is supernatural.…
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