GAME ON! how games can enhance your ministry
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By Doug and Matt 06/29/2010
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Games have been part of youth ministry dating back to the stone ages (a fact that was researched on the internet).
Games can be a great addition to your youth ministry, but if you’re not careful, they can simple become nothing more than time-fillers. As you know, most teenagers don’t show up to youth group and think, “I really hope the adult leaders fill my time!” In this week’s youthministry.com/daily we will explore some ideas on how to make games a strategic part of your ministry. Really, we want to invite you to think a little deeper than just playing games.
Our experience is that the best types of games are the ones that build community and break down barriers. Shared experiences and making memories are powerful ways to impact in a teenager’s life. Most games lead to an element of fun, and a fun environment can leave an imprint that lasts for years beyond their youth ministry experience (Tommy’s scar, concussion and helicopter ride to the emergency room also serve as an unforgettable memory. Hint: when you play Red Rover, don’t turn off the lights thinking it would be better played in complete darkness).
The essential ingredient to all great youth ministry games is FUN. Everyone loves to laugh, and in an atmosphere of fun, teenagers can become comfortable and more open to engage in the other aspects of a ministry program. Students are usually more apt to sing, share, listen, and reflect when they feel comfortable.
We realize that games can get out of control (and we’ll address that tomorrow), but typically games will serve as a relationship catalyst. How? Simple… good games force people to connect. Some students will arrive to your ministry program with a hard heart and may be softened up with some fun. Most teenagers, who live outside the church culture, consider church as boring (and therefore God as boring) and a little fun can help shatter these stereotypes. Also, we’ve found that in our high pressure, stressful world, games provide an opportunity for teenagers to unwind, relax and “just be a kid.”
Some lessons are better “caught” in a game environment rather than taught in a message or Bible study. Games that lead toward teachable moments are powerful ways to leverage a game beyond the sole purpose of fun. When possible, connect you’re a game with a deeper meaning to support a message or ministry value.
Games can have a tremendous impact on your ministry when used correctly. In what way are games moving your ministry forward?





















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Even though I am a silly,
Even though I am a silly, goofy person, I feel like I'm so boring when I do studies with my teenage nephews. I want so much for them to get the point and I have to force myself to stay somewhat light-hearted and patient too. Would love to get in on the "game" secrets and share that with them. I'm sure it would help a lot! Thanks for these amazing resources :)
Games are one of my favorite
Games are one of my favorite parts of our services. I love putting together a game and then sit back and watch everyone have a blast! Sometimes it's hard to make a game be teachable without it being corny but it's definitely possible and worth the effort.
Hint: Minute to win it games are great. They are quick and pretty easy to set up and the kids love them. Try not to get the same volunteers all the time. Try to persuade those who don't want to look foolish to join in. It will really help them open up and deepen their relationship with the group.
I love to laugh and games are a great way to show that christians aren't just stuffed shirts. We can have fun and laugh while glorifying God at the same time!
RONNIE: seriously! KATRINA:
RONNIE: seriously!
KATRINA: games are my downfall also, I'm the most unfun person on the plannet....well, I may be more fun than librarians or M.I.T. grad students...but only barely. When it's not a strength, it's even more important to give it everything you've got, being confident....assuming you're the leading the greatest game ever. It's tough, but it's worth it. AND, if you can find someone who is awesome at it, that's cool too.
MO: it's great that you had a student speak their mind... that's a perfect opportunity to follow up with a one on one conversation... explore what they are thinking and where they got that thinking from ... of course life is supposed to be fun and it's ok to have fun at church programs .... and, there needs to be serious stuff also ... but MORE IMPORTANTLY than what the program ought to look like, I would see what motivated that super spiritual student to say what they did... no matter which way they go, there is an opportunity for you to help them grow... as being so rigid and dogmatic and dropping ultimatums is WONDERFUL opportunity to help him or her gain a little wisdom...
this is a quick answer...drop me an email with a little more information if you want matt [at] youthministry [dot] com
and by "stone ages" you mean
and by "stone ages" you mean when Doug was in his second or third year of ym?
Games are my downfall! I
Games are my downfall!
I understand that they can be really good at helping creating a group, but I still find them so hard.
i am new to being a youth
i am new to being a youth pastor and would like to see someone make dvd that shows brief clips of a bunch of games. I can read about the game but it would be so much easier to see them played.
Pastor i just wanted to find
Pastor i just wanted to find out if its wrong to have fun in church but i need facts cause i was so distrubed this Friday at youth. I am a youth leader at church and i was busy praying for another youngster away from the actual meeting but when i returned everyone was so serious cause one of the youngsters(who is very spiritual) got up and said that youth isnt about fun and games its serious and although i agree that there is a time for really being serious which we allow for each week i didnt feel that we must always be serious. So everyone is walking on eggshells and getting really serious and i love the Lord and am so used of enjoying the presence of the Lord but now everyone is moving away from playing games in youth.Am I wrong?