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Working my way out of a job

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By Alex
9/18/2008

In a perfect world, there would be no need for a "youth minister."

Can you imagine the power of an effective godly family?
Picture mom and dad sharing the Word of God with the kids after the dinner meal around the dinner table everyday.

Good Biblical training and teaching starts at home not the youth minister's office or youth room at the church.

My job as a youth minister is not just about helping and leading students to Christ, but when possible, I help parents train their students. I give parents resource to help them. I spend time with the old guys too.

Parents sometimes rely on youth ministry too much
In a perfect world, there would be no need for a "youth minister."...
Just dropping off the kids and then leave. It is sad, but it is where our culture is at today. I pray that parents stay for church too.

I pray that youth ministry could rely on parents, not the other way around. I pray for godly parenting. Here are some great parenting links:

Parent Resources
CPYU- Center for Parent and Youth Understanding. This is such a cool resource.
Homeword.com - check this site out, lots of answers to tough questions involving parenting
Straightahead.org - Parenting ideas and helps
Christianitytoday.com/teens - Teenagers looking for answers
Christianitytoday.com/parenting - Parents looking for answers
getseriousproject.com - site developed to help keep their kids out of trouble
everystudent.com -answering hot topics high school and college aged students question about

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If this was a perfect world many things would be unnecessary, the police, doctors, lawyers, pastors, etc… I think you have good intentions, but...It's not the youth minister's job to solve every problem. As the leader of the ministry they mobilize the troops to accomplish the mission/purpose and the many different aspects evolved. "If a child is living in Hell's kitchen who will teach him/her biblical standards" I am a father of four and my children are getting a strong foundation, but I still believe in a good youth program.

Cullen 2:10:10pm on 10/08/2008

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I don't think youth ministers should totally be out of a job. Yes, it's definitely important that parents lay the foundation for faith at home. However, I do believe that parents need a coach. They need someone to remind them of the promises they make at baptism (if you're Lutheran) and someone to tell them it's good to talk about faith at home. We've told them for too long that they are supposed to let the church do that. They've given that responsibility away and now need help taking it back. Also, kids will still need to meet in groups with other youth. Yes, they definitely need to see mom and dad living out faith, but they also need to be able to do it with their peers.

Emily 9:09:06am on 9/29/2008

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i said the same thing in our staff meeting when we discussed the idea of a 10 year plan. i said "in 10 years i hope we don't have a youth ministry" for the reasons you gave.

chad 2:09:25pm on 9/26/2008

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